The trouble is Nikki, I have no problem with your response but if you read my previous posts you will see that I have clearly stated I am not encouraging the situation because I know he is in a relationship and that is why I have made no moves to start anything. I can’t help it if we get on really well. This doesn’t mean I am about to try to steal him from his girlfriend. I’m sure he has other clients that are attracted to him as well. I respect his relationship. Like I have said I did not write this post to ask for advice on how to steal somebody’s lover. I am not that person. I wrote it for advice on how to get over this situation because it hurts. You are right if he wanted to start something then it doesn’t say much about him but thats fine because I would never start anything with someone that was in a relationship. I’m asking for help on how to handle a difficult situation. I haven’t come on here to ask how to be a relationship wrecker. Quite the opposite. I was hoping for some advice on how to overcome these feelings and deal with them when I know nothing can come of this and I got some good advice which I will take with me.