Oh, I can’t edit my post anymore, but I wanted to add that we all feel fear and anxiety and we all are unique. The trick is not to allow that fear to take over you and allow you to make your decisions and actions for you, and we shouldn’t try to be something that we are not in order to win the approval of others. Being genuine is always more appealing than being fake, and pushing forward regardless of a bit of fear has always won the hearts of others 🙂 That is appealing and influential.