Hello Ely,

Hope you are doing well.

I have to say your boyfriend is right. Focus on yourself. I can’t say for sure but I believe he has a hope you will change so you’ll can be together.

If you really want him and you can’t start focusing on yourself without him. Tell him that you want to have a dinner once a week or in the starting may be once a month to catch up. But I truly believe you need to focus on yourself.

Your inner strength will be the key.

Warm Regards,

Passionate Self