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Thanks.
2 things:
1. “jumping off the cliff was just that….a thought….nothing else…:)” – you may think that such words may be a joke or may get you the attention you seek but you probably don’t understand the gravity of such sentences on your mind. Our thoughts and words have a huge impact on the state of our being. I hope in future, you will think twice before putting such words in your mind or on any source.
2. It takes 2 to tango. What you give out, you get back. Take a game of squash for example. When you hit a ball, it goes to the wall but it comes back to you with the same speed. Love, hatred, arguments, miscommunications etc all work on the same principle. When we are nasty to others, others are nasty back to us in some form or other. We attract what we are as everything is energy at the end of day (my experience).
It is easy to say that you had respect for them and you lost it after they started mistreating you. Perhaps, give this point a bit of a thought so that you do not have any misconceptions about yourself in your mind. Equation of any relationship is pretty simple and logical. Give love, receive love. Give respect, receive respect. It doesn’t go like this – wait for respect before giving respect, wait for love before giving love etc.
There is no rush in life. Take your time to make any decisions as it is your life’s decision. Only you can make it 🙂
J