I want to thank each of you that has taken the time to reply.

@The Ruminant: I understand what you mean, but I fear I wasn’t able to do it properly. Despite my intentions I couldn’t come off that way.

@macky: I do believe she is. I can see that nobody but her can do something about it. Some years ago I was depressed myself and only when I began understanding and healing from within could I get out of it. I understand her path has nothing to do with me. I just hope she can find brighter days in her life.

@Big Blue: That’s an interesting exercise. My answers to your Q’s were indeed affirmative. We are all flawed and will always be. What do I think? We are only human, both with our virtues and our flaws. As for my friend, my wish is, like I said to macky, that she finds what she needs. If by then I’m no part of her life that’s alright. She deserves to find peace.

Thanks everyone for your words.
Lurker.