Allan,

Everything I know of happens for a reason(s), but I don’t see it as “meaningful”, more as “in tune”. My teacher called it auspicious coincidence, favorable moments. When we feel a heartfelt call and act, we often find things aligning. It doesn’t mean she’s destined to be a romance, more likely to show you how strong you’ve become, how peaceful. Its good not to throw emotions in a basket, we need them. 🙂

Said differently, it sounds like you had a nice day. Maybe simply be grateful it went well? Much more than that might just open wounds that are still fresh, tender. Consider that if you keep on with the self growth, you’ll be better prepared when the time comes, no matter who your dance partner happens to be.

Namaste, brother, may your equanimity grow rich from all your wonderful efforts.

With warmth,
Matt