Thanks Inky

Hi Alpal. I agree with The Ruminant’s advice to date on this thread.

For some reason, I am sensing many contradictions in your post and I cant really figure out your exact question. On one side you are happy and on cloud nine for having married an awesome man (Congrats again by the way 🙂 ) and on the other hand side, you are querying other peoples’ motives.

Do you know what it is that is bugging you ? Have you figured it out in your mind as to what is it that you want ? If you know what it is that you want, then stick with it. Aren’t you a clairvoyant ?

When is the full on wedding ?

J