Hi Again!
One friend “got over it”. She complained that I wasn’t spending as much time with her as before. I took out my old and new calendar and made a spreadsheet showing her that I was spending just as much time as ever, and that I was still her BFF! LOL
Another friend, older, I think wanted me to marry her son. My DH was the total opposite ~ blonde, an engineer, direct, “boring”. LOL
A third friend makes a living as a psychic and predicted that we would “never last” to anyone who would listen. Now it’s twenty years later and we are still going strong. Now she is upset that she looks stupid. We were out to lunch a couple weeks ago and the restaurant owner was congratulating me on twenty years (our reception was in the same restaurant!) and how they would do this, this and that for the twenty/twenty-fifth, she went on and on and on…. My new age friend was visibly very unhappy!!
Basically I laugh inwardly at the detractors. DH isn’t going anywhere LOLOL!!
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