Thanks for your insight here. I too am going through a similar situation with a friend. The letting go part is very hard, but I am trying to do it as best I can. I tried to continue the friendship with everything I had in me and nothing happened, in fact from my perspective it made things worse. Maybe because I know I was trying so hard and was not getting anything back. I became exhausted from it and could not continue. I realize now that I am doing the best thing for myself, if she decides she misses me and wants me in her life we will see where I am at that time, if not, I am better off. I want happiness in my life and this friendship was bringing a lot of negativity.