Hi Manoj,

I have received an automatic post by Tiny Buddha that someone mentioned me in a post. Then I saw that there is another bill on tinybuddha who actually gave you his advice, and I agree with him 🙂 Once I am here, however, I will add something: Never, ever say that you are a failure. Because even if you want to be – you cannot. Everything in this universe has its own purpose and nothing is a coincidence. We define failure as a state in which one compares himself to certain predefined norms of life. But who is to define anything? Why people try to always “fit in” and when they do not they define themselves as a failure? In fact, when you do not “fit” you are a step further than the rest. Because, you stopped and said – I am doing something “wrong”. That is a huuge step toward who you actually are. And as they mentioned before, you cannot know who you are without knowing who you are not. Time is illusion and mentioning of how old are you has nothing to do with this. So how to go out of it? By doing NOTHING, but ACCEPTING that state as something natural. Because, as I have said, your soul wants you to know that a change is to follow your life and you need to welcome it. But you need to stop “wonder around” and worry. The more you worry, the more you postpone the time when this beautiful change will happen. Worries stop the universe to unfold in front of yourself.
In a book called ,,Conversation with God” the author was also a person who felt as a failure, in the end to become a best selling one – you may want to read it as well.

From my personal experience when I am not happy with something, I say “what the f..k, then I go and enjoy to maximum. The solution appears very soon after.