Hi

I’ve always been an “outlier” for this disorders ~ I’d have some symptoms, but not enough to get diagnosed with anything. But, there was enough ADD stuff going on while growing up that I know exactly what you mean ~ I’ve been there. Reading, drawing, if they had video games back then I’d totally be a Geek Girl. Kept to myself, three friends tops.

Say to yourself that you forgive anyone who ever did you harm if they were under the age of 18. Go look at HS kids IRL. Don’t they look like babies now?? Unformed. Half Baked. They know not what they do.

Comparison ~ when you’re young you brag about things you’ve done. When you’re old you talk about your family and events that happened. Who is wiser, the young do-er or the old appreciate-er?

You don’t know how your dad feels. Maybe he thinks you’re not proud of him, who knows?? Once you are older than your dad was when you were born you will see him as a mere person.

I freaking love Games. But I have a ritual ~ my apps I only play when I’m in bed about to go to sleep or before I get up. My computer games I only play before everyone is out the door. You can use other things in ritual too, for values and vices. It helps to do things at a certain time of day/week/month/year.