Zacia,

Sounds great! I know there are some cultural differences, but in my view, a husband supports and encourages his wife’s strength, helps it grow. Otherwise, he’s not really being a husband, he just wants a wife. Which is totally different. 🙂

I think its really wise of you to wish to come from a place of strength and independence. Why give him control? He’s not aiming as well as you are, and may need quite a few gentle slaps to keep him focused. 🙂

With warmth,
Matt