Look, non-monogamous relationships can work, but they require a lot of open and honest communication, consideration of each other’s feelings and general emotional intelligence.

This non-manogamous relationship is not working. You don’t like his sleeping around, but you don’t even feel like you can air your feelings? So on some level you sense he doesn’t care how you feel, he’ll do as he damn well pleases. Why are you even considering moving in with this guy?

Madonna-whore complex is a real thing, but it’s not an excuse to sleep around when you know your partner isn’t ok with that. If he can’t get it into his head that a woman can be a freak in the sack and a respectable human being at the same time, maybe he’s not ready to have actual relationships with actual respectable human beings.

Get rid of this clown. If it truly hurts to part with him, leave your number and tell him to get in touch when he sorts his damn head out.