I just posted something similar to what you’re dealing with. I’m just like your girl friend. What you have is real. It’s honestly hard to get that with anyone else. I think maybe if you reassured her more, things would be better. I know that sounds silly, but sometimes we just need it. I don’t know. I let my mind get the best of me. I’m glad he’s stuck around and put up with it all but i’m just so finicky with my mind I damage everything 🙁