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  • August 18, 2014 at 1:35 pm #63597
    Whit
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    I understand what you mean when you say is that friendship worth my fear of security, but to be honest, I shouldn’t even be that way though. He should be allowed to have friends. I’m allowed to have friends. It’s not fair that my mind just jumps to all these conclusions immediately just from seeing text messages. I just wish there was a way I could train my mind to stop doing this and just let things be and be happy instead of thinking the worst of every situation.

    August 18, 2014 at 12:00 pm #63593
    Whit
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    I just posted something similar to what you’re dealing with. I’m just like your girl friend. What you have is real. It’s honestly hard to get that with anyone else. I think maybe if you reassured her more, things would be better. I know that sounds silly, but sometimes we just need it. I don’t know. I let my mind get the best of me. I’m glad he’s stuck around and put up with it all but i’m just so finicky with my mind I damage everything 🙁

    August 18, 2014 at 10:03 am #63587
    Whit
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    I’ve been there girl and I’m sort of dealing with it now, we just aren’t broken up. It’s weird. But there is a light at the end of the tunnel. What I had to do before is realize that i’m the cause of everything in my life. I started keeping myself busy and planning out my days. Going to the movies alone, going on nature walks, just getting out and active. You really have to just train your mind to think about something else when you go to those low spots. Conditioning it. How are you doing now?

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