Gee Will…it’s advice such as:

Abigail, rather than putting your energy into trying to be a shape you’ll probably never achieve
that keep people stuck, immobilized and defeated. Anyone can change aspects of themselves or their surroundings, but they have to really, really , really want to change.
So Will you great insight?
Just change your attitude?…great advice. Very similar to, trying to find a good radio station while your car is on fire,

Abigail, a change in attitude will do nothing without an action. It is the action that will empower you and as you gain inner strength than YOU have control of staying, leaving or anything else. It’s your turn, don’t let anyone else DEFINE your life or tell you “you’ll never achieve”…I think we have a name for statements such as Will wrote: “verbal abuse” …diminishing someone’s self worth and negating their power and abilities.
Abigail, stay in the moment take a step toward what you want, focus on you not your boyfriend or his past girlfriends.
Pamela