Feel free to discount my opinion…
* The desire to save up for a good house is nice but at the cost of living with parents when you are an adult? In a way this is not fair to your parents, it is hard to have a adult child living with you. Before giving up on my marriage I would see how things are when we did not live in such a difficult situation. A “good home” of your own will not bring happiness, you can be happy in any home you have.
* We and our partners will have periods where we feel bad and are not loving
* Being called names and being put down will end with one of two options, set your boundaries, make them clear and hope he stops, or leave him. Only you can make that choice.
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