I would say: Let time run its course because this is just the beginning and both of you have your goals, needs and he has a lot going on from what i can gather. This doesnt mean your needs are overboard but yes, do tell him that you would like to spend some time together when it has been a while. Doesnt he get back to you eventually when you let things be? On days you really struggle with it, do something you enjoy. I would watch movies, call a friend over or cook something, maybe sing and when i am happier, my time with him is more meaningful…Your parents may have had a different course of events but that doesnt mean every time, the same will happen to you. Remind yourself that “every story is different and you need to have faith in what you have which means finding a balance between your needs and his” now every relationship needs that, doesnt it?