David
First of all jobs are scarce, these are bad times for the economy.
There are families with children whose fathers are out of work
so stop feeling sorry for yourself.
Second of all if you are shacking up with a girl, wherever she is
she will also be shacking up with another user. She has no morals.
Do you expect God to bless you for that? You are a needy person and you need to get your sense of being from another.
You have inferior feelings because you are not living up to higher standards.
No wonder you are in a mess.
You can become a stronger person morally and can have a better opinion of yourself if you stop being so needy.
Be a man, say no to using a woman to bolster up your self confidence.
Sympathy from others will not help you, only the truth will set you free.