Dear Julia

First, take a deep breath. Calm your inner self down.

I’m so sorry to read your post and I can feel your anxiety and sadness. Keep reminding yourself that you are going to be OK. You probably feel like the world is about to caved in but it’s not.

Honey, I’ve been in your shoes before and I can assure you, it will get better and you are going to be OK.

You are not a bad person. You only wanted what a wife want/expect from her husband. Companion, love, loyalty, honesty and darling, he didn’t give you any of that.

It doesn’t matter who dumps who, what matters are that you now have the chance to be happy and loved as you deserved. Tell your self that you are not a bad person. Tell your self that you are worthy of honest and total devotion. Tell your self that it’s your birth right to be loved and happy.

It’s been a very unhappy 4 years from your post. So my darling Julia, let it go. Let it go and don’t be afraid. Have faith that things always happens for a very good reason.

Regards to the car and other material things contact your lawyer and see what’s the best thing to go about this. You can sell them and take your halves instance.

But before I that you need to tell yourself that you are going to be OK. All I said to my self then was ‘I was OK before I met you so now I’ll be OK again without you’

Keep your chin up. You deserve better, well you deserve the best!

Lots of love

Xx