my husband is working overseas I miss him and have begged him to come home for 4 years always says he is saving money while he still can he plainly told me that he did not have a girlfriend when I found out last year that he had taken some trips to hong knog and singapore when he told me he was on work duty I was devasted he had already left to return to work and then refused my calls and left me with no job and no money I found a job and took care of all the household and bills now I find on facebook his girlfriend since 2012 all the cosy pictures and trips and flowers he sent her he always said he did not want or need a girlfriend now since I saw this he refuses to talk but he does send many emails telling me he had no choice but to do this because I am a bad women we were going on our annusal vacation together and this year I was looking forward to it I had let go of many expectations and felt that if I was passive we would get along and he would finally come home for good the life we had planned together is probably not going to happen I am left with house and cars to pay for that I do not want or need and I am lonely since he lied does that mean he still cares but now that I know he dumps me I did not get mad I told him how much I loved him and that I should have taken care of him better and he would not need a girlfriend but still no response from him I am half a world away from him and this girl has his ear and I do not think I have a chance of winning him back it is like he wants to see me as a bad person and his mind is made up I need some one to talk to