Hi Rachel,

I’m sorry for your heartbreak and pain. I am a man and would like to give you my perspective on the subject. I know I should not try to tell you what to do, but I must speak from the heart. If you were my sister I would tell you to move on. Find somebody who will value your love and stay true to you. I’m sorry, but there is nothing you could have done or not done to deserve to be cheated on. To me, it’s the ultimate disrespect. And in your case it’s happened twice. I know what it feels like to have somebody I loved hurt me badly. The fact is this. You may love him, but he does not love you the same way. If he did, he would not have hurt you like this. It’s selfish and childish of him to try to have you and another woman at the same time. Such a man is not trust-able and irresponsible. You deserve better. You deserve love. You deserve a person who will respect you and treat you well. If you still love him, do so from a distance. Don’t let him hurt you again. Your heart deserves better.