Hello again Lexy99,

I can’t quite tell from your post if you’re dealing with personal issues and your job, or just the job situation itself. Are personal issues affecting you on the job or is it the other way around?

If you’re feeling overwhelmed by several things, perhaps taking a leave of absence from your job might give you time and space to look at things more objectively. If you find that the conditions at work are so intolerable that you’re stressed and anxious to the point of becoming ill, then the question to ask yourself is whether a paycheck is worth the misery. If you decide that the personal issues are interfering with your work performance, then the question becomes how to resolve those issues so that you can continue to work at your best and highest level.

You may be feeling uncomfortable but you’re being cautious about your next move, which is a good sign that you’re doing all right. Steady on…we’re sending love and light your way!

Warmest aloha,
Aliamanu