Hi Inky,

I don’t think it’s a matter of picking and choosing like in a grocery store and I have no ‘need’ to get married. I never viewed that other woman as an object because I got to know her, and I cared about her. I’m trying to move on from it because it’s hard thinking about someone who you had a good feeling about.
It kind of sounds like you are saying that I am just being superficial about this, but it comes down to more than that. Your impression of me is wrong. I’m still figuring this all out. It’s new again after 20 plus years.