Hi Kaushambi,

I agree with what Becky has said, you talk about it and tell her exactly what you feel – that is not being confrontational but being mature and standing your ground. Dont waste time if she doesnt get it or continues to do so.

Also, my first thought as I read your post was that it was amazing that you are non-confrontational and peace loving…but do you think it is right to do that even in situations where someone is putting you down? Is it SO important for you to be non-confrontational that you dont do or say anything even though they treat you poorly? Im not sure you should be, the world is a harsh place and you need to take care of yourself. Never change who you are, that is important but so is looking after yourself . People can be cruel and mean and you need to tell/teach them how you deserve to be treated.

Good luck – look after you 🙂

Lily