Vhanon,

Read Tir’s answer. Then read it again the next day, every day for a week. Then read it again every week for a month. Then read it again every month for a year. You have to really let it sink in. It is absolutely correct, and the correct way of looking at this.

Sometimes kids say, “It’s so much work to be your friend”. I know you’re an adult, but consider that.

To be honest, I skimmed half of what you said because the defensiveness is so heavy. Did you come here for advice, opinions or to argue?

Let Martha go.

Strive to be happy.

• This reply was modified 10 years, 1 month ago by Inky.