Edit: Maybe don’t do #2 if your fiancé already went on an email rampage. But do let people know that you are being targeted by a crazy woman. You don’t have to name names, but everyone will still support you if they see your life is being smeared. Maybe: “I’ve been targeted by a woman who is currently unstable. I just want to clear up any rumors without giving more energy to it. Thank you everyone for all the love, support and care!” This way everyone will give it because they think everyone else is!!!

But you’re not alone. The Wife always but always goes ballistic. An old friend was convinced her lover was free and clear only to have a wife pop out from nowhere (years later!) and write her parents about what she did so she could be scolded like a child.