Hey wood95,

Don’t feel like you couldn’t share a bit of your story with me. Sometimes, it makes things a lot easy to work through if you know that others have some of the same difficulties with situations as you. Not to say that I hope other people have a shared hardship as me, but just to know you aren’t alone.

I’m not sure how both women felt. I am trying to give up on what other people think because it can drive you nuts. With the woman that was taking shots at me with texts, I did try to let her down easy. I’ve never been too good at hurting people’s feelings.
With the other woman that I cared about. She obviously didn’t want to hurt my feelings either, but I would have rather been cut off cold than have someone let me down easy, over time. You get too hopeful that you still have a chance that way, and to me, that is much more painful.

Thanks