Hello Chris,

I understand you still feel angry and want to rid yourself of every aspect of the relationship. And perhaps you are not ready to accept the fact that forgiveness has nothing to do with anyone else, but everything to do with you…But I believe this is the truth…Can you see that the only person who is being hurt by your anger and pain is you? For years I carried around the pain and hurt from an abusive relationship not realizing that I was only hurting myself. Understanding that someone else’s behavior is their behavior and nothing to do with me helped, as did realizing that in letting go of my pain I set myself free…Maybe you will want to consider this idea…

Love and peace,

Marilyn