Dear Jon,
I can relate to your feelings. I was there and remember the overwhelming feelings of indecision. I remember the sleepless nights juggling the pros and cons of the situation. When we are in the middle of a life circumstance involving other people, we often think what’s wrong has much to do with the other person. But a lot of time, it has to do with us. We change too. This might be a chance for you to put less focus on the relationship and more on you. Try a new hobby, try out that something you’ve always wanted to you. Might be it’s a call to move inward, to find who you truly are and what truly brings you joy. When we’re happy with who we are and have our own fiery passion, everything around us seems to be influenced by that energy and passion as well.
“Often, your best relationships are not the ones you run after; they are the ones that just reveal themselves.” ~ Mooji
With love and warmth.
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