Dear David,
Most breakups are devastating. I can relate to your pain. I went through a few myself. I know, sometimes, no amount of words or comfort seem to do it. Sometimes, what it takes is time. Allow yourself time to grief this loss. With every crisis we overcome, we will come out just a little stronger, and a little wiser. Everyone who enters our life, is there to teach us something about ourselves. Life is a series of lessons, especially the heartbreaks, because they make us think a little more deeply. Take comfort that everything is meant to be as it happens. In the midst of a crisis, all we can see, is that it is a crisis. But I am a strong believer that we are given exactly what we need when we need it, to allow us to learn and grow. When a certain amount of time has passed, you will be able to look back at these circumstances and be appreciative of them, as they work to help build a stronger you. In this journey of life, sometimes, life feels as though it is about this one person, and we can’t imagine life otherwise. But it’s really just a chapter in our life. You will move on. Life has a way of renewing itself. Your spirits has a way of rejuvenating itself. Take care of yourself for now. Go out for walks, hit the gym … Just be very patient with yourself and everything will be alright.

Much love and warmth to you.

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