What you are feeling is so normal, it’s text-book! The time line ~ If you were, say, now 30 and weren’t over him after 8-ish years then that’s a problem LOL. But the breakup “just” happened! There are people who carry a torch for decades. I don’t think that’s “you” because you are already having bouts of happiness and normalcy and don’t seem to romanticize this guy. If anything, your competitive spirit will keep you attached.

Keep it up, you’re doing better than I’ve been over break ups!