Hi there,

Im sorry I dont have the life experience to be able to guide you but I read this and wanted to send you my warmest thoughts and hugs. What you went through and are going through is absolutely heartbreaking and traumatic. I know that no matter what, you will get past the fear, the pain, the brokenness and heal. Your love little girl has a strong mother and you have her and your family to look after each other.

I cant even imagine why he said and did all that he did…such a coward. Whatever his problem might be, abandoning your family is low. You deserve better, your daughter deserves so so much more. You can give that to her – no doubt about that.

Use your wisdom and your head to guide your actions, your heart is broken and that along with your soul needs healing. Use your head to protect yourself and to progress to the next phase.

Keep us posted. Warmth all the way to you.
Lily.