Anonymous, you are fine fine fine! Totally normal to feel how you are feeling but you are young and trust me….there will be a lot more hearbreak along the way – but you learn how to deal with it…and you get really good at it. And dating actually becomes fun 🙂

First: What did you learn from this relationship? (Probably that you were not getting your needs met and you stayed?) This is a GREAT lesson to learn so early on.

Second: What are you going to do now? Well, have some fun please. Don’t take yourself so seriously….you sound like a very emotional guy (which is wonderful!) Us girls love guys like you.

Third: Ah..no she wasn’t the prettiest girl alive…maybe she was to you bc you loved her…but there is an even prettier girl who will have sex with you like right around the corner. And stop trying to “understand why” – this is what drives us nuts. Forget it. You have to try – no one can pull you out except you.

Fourth: Please adopt a new view on life. Find yourself again, and tell yourself that you will ask out 6 girls in the next 10 days and expect 5 no’s and 1 yes. Before you know it…you will be having fun.

Life is a mystery…you take one step and suddenly something develops.

“hugs” I know a broken heart sucks. But trust me…you will be so over this girl