Oh, dear…
I’ve been in his place. It was terrible because I knew I didn’t love him anymore and no matter what I did, how much I tried, I couldn’t force love, couldn’t make this relationship right. We had a (somewhat) messy breakup. And I regret that I wasted his time, I regret that some of his first experiences were with someone not in love with him.
Anyways if this is the case with your boyfriend, it pains me to say this but I don’t think you can work it out. It’s not your fault. It’s not his. It will hurt to part ways… but well, we all face pain and frustration. I’ve had my share for the first time, and I’m angry at myself, and I’m angry at life, but I know the healthiest thing to do is accept this defeat and move on.
You deserve a partner on the same page as you. You can be happy while single, ove you’re over the pain. And one day someone else will appear and you’ll love again, and you won’t regret this decision.
It’s hard when love goes wrong. My heart goes out to you.