Hi buddhajackson,

If he brings it up, listen, and give him room to talk. Let him wear himself out talking. Ask leading questions like, “Why do you think you did that?” “How do you think that makes her feel?” “What do you think the fall out will be?” Maybe, just maybe, he will examine himself and learn something. If pressed for an opinion, it’s totally OK to say, “Well, I think you really blew it.” He did. He knows! Maybe he’ll find another great person in the future and be worthy of her.

Best,

Inky