So in other words, conditional care exists but not real love? I don’t believe unconditional love is idealized, but I do think it is very very rare to almost non existent. Conditional care is based on “me, myself and mine”, either secretly or not, a selfish caring.
You can show a lot of care for someone and tell them you love them, but when they make a mistake or show one, your real feelings are exposed.
Unconditional love accepts that no one is perfect, but conditional care can’t accept this. The end of a relationship does not have to mean the end of love, but unconditional love does not mean accept being mistreated.
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