Hi Sunflower,

I hate to say it, but let him have a space for just him and his daughter. She is only a teen for so long, and will only be on visitation for a short amount of time until she’s an adult. Let her and her dad have time and peace. You around will just trigger her. Also, it will give YOU space and time to really look at this relationship from a perspective.

Revisit this guy when the kids are grown, the ex wife had moved on, and he has more of a handle on his own mental health.

Peace,

Inky