Dear BohemianZen,
Firstly , very sorry for getting back to you so late!
Thanks a lot for the video.! The guy in it seems to have researched a lot on this topic to gain an indepth understanding of such people. Okay maybe my so-called paternal grandfather ( i would prefer calling him loser…still) has some problem with himself..fine but he is a failure as a family member. But after hearing this guy, now i know that I have to maybe try and change my perspective..maybe inside he is suffering..not sure about that..cant really imagine him suffering..oh! he has such an irritating grin..
anyways, i am not gonna let that intimidate me. Ihave a life to live…with my mom and my sister..and all my loved ones..who love me and whom i love.. Thanks for making me realize that!

Yours truly,
Parth