Hi Molo,

Oh. My. God. I feel awful for you. Sorry you have to go through this.

From what I gather, you’ve decided not to go to the wedding, but maybe you feel guilty about that decision?

Hell, at this point, I wouldn’t want to go either, especially since your daughter hasn’t expressed any apologies. But that’s not to say she won’t. Do you think she will? Do you think she gets how much this has hurt you? I feel that’s probably why you don’t want to go to the wedding, because she hurt you so much, and to show her that. I don’t blame you.

But perhaps as time goes on, your emotions about your daughter’s role in this will change, and that you’ll she never meant to hurt you and that it was a terrible mistake, which I gather from what you’ve written, you feel like it was. So for now, I say accept how hurt and betrayed you feel. Don’t rush into making any decisions. The wedding isn’t tomorrow, and thank god. That gives you some time to go through it.

Good luck.

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