Thanks Jodi, Will and Inky.

I really appreciate the time each of you took to read my story and to share your wisdom. It feels good.

I did feel controlled a lot in the relationship so Inky, your words really resonated with me, and also Will, what you say about a partner helping one work through one’s issues seems nice and I hope I find someone capable of that in the future. But, for now, I want to be alone so I can focus on helping myself and trying to make the best of what happened in terms of personal growth and learning.

I guess if I am being honest, I want accountability for what happened. I would love if I could have absolute clarity on what part of what went wrong was his and what was mine. Which came first. However, I guess I need to let go of that, right? How does one do that?