Peachy,

What can you do to have the two of you not living in the same space anymore? This should be your priority, everything else will become clearer once you have a little distance. You must split up physically now that things have come to this point. Can he move in with family? Can he go to a cheap hotel? Can you and the kids stay with family? Is there a shelter for abused women? Is there anywhere you can go, even just as a temporary solution?

You won’t be able to get out from under the crazy when he’s constantly there to heap more on top of you. Pull your resources together. Make it happen. He moves, or you move. When you realise this is truly what must happen, you will find a way.