Hi Paul,

Yeah, I agree with Will.

I love the title of the book Three Cups of Tea. The premise for the title is: In that part of the world you don’t ask anything from anyone without having “three cups of tea”. That means three social visits that might take all afternoon. No pressure. No diving right in. Just hanging out, enjoying each other’s company.

As a girl AND an introvert, it is a real turn off for me personally when someone is all touchy-feely. One caveat: if I have already decided I really am fond of somebody, that is the one exception!

I would say: A hug in greeting. A hug when leaving. And a touch on the upper arm.

Proceed three cups of tea style from there.

Inky