Hi thethinker2015,

If the fights were Fights That Matter, you wouldn’t be all lovey dovey the next week. Know what I mean? So when you fight about something, assume (I know it’s hard) that the fight really doesn’t matter.

Practice Radical Acceptance. He/she’s right. Say “Yes”. Listen. Agree. This may drive the other person crazy if they’re looking for a fight. But do this and see what happens. See how it goes. If you’re lucky, it may change the whole dynamic of the relationship. At the very least, you might learn something.

Good Luck,

Inky