Hey Howard,

Yea long time man, I am doing well, a few weeks ago I had an interview for the job I really wanted but I ended up screwing it up be being way too honest and making myself look bad. I was extremely disappointed and felt like crap, I kinda still do but I know its a fleeting state so it will pass. I went on a volunteer trip to Nepal the weekend after and just got back home a few days ago, back to reality.

I myself am in a bit of a rut, as most of my future plans for this year broke since I did not get that job, but I know that everything happens for a reason and I am still quite young for the position so I am doing my best to mature and grow in the mean time, and do the right things.

It’s crazy how time has passed so fast isn’t it? What happened between now and your last post? You were seeing each other and hanging out a bit right?

If that got worse and you two got hurt again, then I am sorry to hear that man. However, no matter what, I will still stick to what I believe about breakups and that is that you need to cut off the contact, for good until you are completely detached (which I am not, though we broke up in September, but I know it will come despite relapses in the way I think and how I sometimes Idolize the past on occasion).

Let us know how you are doing right now, what is new with you?

Always great to hear from you man

Singh