Hi autumnair,

A few things:

1. Spending the night with someone before you are truly serious is always a bad idea.

2. Show them don’t tell them. It would have been more powerful if you simply dropped the rope at your end without saying a word. He would be more likely to get nervous and uncomfortable at his end, prompting him to call. By making a statement, it’s doubtful he will call now.

3. Don’t call him. Unfortunately you boxed yourself into a corner by saying “Don’t expect to hear from me”. I’d rather him never hear from you again thinking you are a strong woman true to her word than him hearing from you and thus thinking you are a wishy-washy girl.

Best,

Inky