Sid

I feel for you brother. My life situation has been rough for the past three years for reasons I won’t go into right now but suffice it to say that finding a way to release attachment to the actions and life situations of other people is the key to freedom. Even though it is hard to do, wish her and the man she is engaged to peace, health and happiness, cultivate awareness of the present moment and realize that most of the pain that you are feeling is related to thoughts you are having about the situation. I know that is easier said than done at times but it gets incrementally more doable with practice. Two steps forward, one step back but you are still moving on a forward trajectory. I hope this little tidbit helps. You will find someone eventually. Just do it with an open heart and mind and don’t force any relationship or scenario into the little box that you think it should go into. It has to have a natural flow of its own. Good luck to you.