Dear Lil.lily,

Everything is a stepping stone for the next. Each person who comes into your life is either a teacher for learning a lesson for the moment or will be a person that you will learn lessons with for the rest of your life. If you see patterns repeated with each of these men, you have to look at the patterns to understand why they keep resurfacing.
And yes, it can be difficult but remind yourself the Universe always has your best intention in store. Through each person, you will become the person you are meant to become so you can attract that love that will be for your highest good.