Olic,

Interesting situation. You obviously have a lot or self control and discipline that is to be applauded. I agree focusing your energy on your career makes sense until you’ve reached your goals and are more established.

My advice is to not suppress your sexual needs and desires should they arise. Don’t settle for paid sex or pornography. (Not accusing you but I’ve seen it happen). The real thing is better and you deserve to have a good sex life should you have the time to pursue it. If you are being placed in the friend zone by desirable mates then message me back and I can elaborate on this common pitfall for men seeking meaningful romantic relationships. Lastly don’t be ashamed on your masculine energy and having sexual needs.