Hi poeticanthology,

Most people go through at least a few relationships before finding The One that lasts. I mean, you were essentially four years out of the running, so it’s not like you were rejected then. More like, dejected (totally understandable!) Also, look at the pool where you generally are meeting guys. Bars? Clubs? Not the best places. Friends of the family? Friends of friends? Church? Better! May I suggest looking for slightly older guys ~ late twenties/early thirties. Those will probably be more serious about things like that.

View dating as a game! Go out ONLY to have fun and to have a good time. Yes, you will run into lemons, but they might know someone perfect for you! You never know.

Best,

Inky